IDENTITY STUFF
But, remember: your "self" isn't something you develop or create. Self image is just an "image" after all, not something concrete. Finding yourself is more like coming home to something that's always been there, that you have to find and cultivate.
General guidelines
- Live for yourself, not for others. Prioritize your own happiness and well being, and stop making choices to impress or satisfy others.
- Funny
- Cute
- Unconventional
- Private/secretive
- Shy
- Anxious
- Sensitive
- Vulnerable
- Bubbly
- Energetic
- Aimless
- Talkative
- Introspective
- Temperamental
- Kindness
- Acceptance
- Freedom
- Sensitivity
- Negativity
- People pleasing
- Avoidance
- Withdrawal and isolation
- Insecurity
- Impulsivity
- Impatience
- Watching TV series
- Gaming
- Dancing
- Exercise
- Worldbuilding
- Films and TV series
- Fictional universes
- Planning my future
- Personality psychology
- Partying
- Creating websites
- Baking something
- Going to cafes or restaurants
- City exploration (biking around)
- Journaling
- Going to the beach
- Beauty: architecture, interiors, photography
- Nature, especially forests and rivers
- Sunny or rainy weather
- Kind and warm people
- Passionate people
- Pretty and sexy people
- A clean home
- Pasta Carbonara, Aglio e Olio, Pizza with ham and champignon
- Coca Cola, sparkling water, energy drinks, coffee
- My job (unfulfiling)
- Studying psychology (pointless)